Church of the Presentation

CHURCH OF THE PRESENTATION

A welcoming Catholic community leading people into a growing relationship with Jesus Christ through Word, Worship, and Outreach.

271 W. Saddle River Rd. • Upper Saddle River, NJ 07458 • ph: 201-327-1313

ROMP

Shortcode

Wedding Ceremony

End shortcode

Women’s Cornerstone

Daily Rosary | Divine Mercy Chaplet | Eucharistic Adoration | Stations of the Cross

Men’s Cornerstone

Parish Picnic

Bereavement Ministry

Parish Picnic

Parish Picnic

Red Sample

Parish Picnic

Ed. Ginter
Spring Concert | Christmas Concert | Presentation MTV |
Piano Men

Parish Picnic

Putting On the Heart of Christ

“Your Heart Today”


Music by: Manoling Francisco
Gideon Bendicion (Piano) | Joseph Legaspi (Vocals)



“Putting On the Heart of Christ”

Daybreaks: Daily Reflections for Lent & Easter
by Ron Rolheiser, OMI

 

“Be merciful, just as [also] your Father is merciful”.

(LUKE 6:36)

“In the letters of St. Paul, the apostle makes a distinction between life in the flesh as opposed to life in the Spirit.

Life in the flesh is characterized by lewd conduct, impurity, licentiousness, idolatry, sorcery, hostilities, bickering, jealousy, outbursts of rage, selfish rivalries, dissensions, factionalism, envy, drunkenness, and orgies (see Galatians 5:16-21). When these exist in our lives, Paul cautions, we may not delude ourselves into thinking we are living inside of God’s spirit.

‘In contrast, the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law’ (Galatians 5:22-23). It is only when these qualities are manifest in our lives that we may understand ourselves as walking in true discipleship.

For Paul, the litmus test for discipleship is not a single moral issue but rather whole way of living that radiates more love than selfishness, more joy than bitterness, more peace than factionalism, more patience and respect than negative judgment and gossip, more empathy than anger, and more willingness to sweat the blood of sacrifice than to give in to the temptations of the moment.

Christian discipleship is not just about our actions; it’s also about our hearts. The essence of Christian discipleship lies in putting on the heart of Christ. Proper morality, defense of truth, and life-giving Church practices follow from that – and, when rooted in that, they become respectful, forgiving, and loving” (16).


“Heaven’s Ladder”
Lenten thoughts from Saints  

“Apart from the cross, there is no other ladder by which we may get to heaven.”

St Rose of Lima

“40 Ways To Be During Lent”
Ashes to Easter

– Be Patient –

From Self-Preservation to Vulnerability

A Lenten Prayer



“From Self-Preservation to Vulnerability”

Daybreaks: Daily Reflections for Lent & Easter
by Ron Rolheiser, OMI

 

“So do not be ashamed of your testimony to our Lord, nor of me,
a prisoner for his sake; but bear your share of hardship for the gospel with the strength
that comes from God”.

(2 TIMOTHY 1:8)

Today, among many of us churchgoers, there is growing propensity to self-protect rather than risk crucifixion for the world. We are well-intentioned in this, but, good intentions notwithstanding, our actions are the opposite of Jesus. He loved the world enough to let himself be crucified rather than self-protect. 

Jesus’ disciples were forever trying to protect him from various groups they deemed unworthy of his presence, and Jesus was forever clear that he didn’t need or want to be protected. 

More importantly, his disciples were also trying to protect him against persons and things they deemed as threats to him. What was Jesus’ response to this effort at protection? We have his words: no more of this! But we don’t have the tone of those words. Were they spoken in anger, as sharp reprimand? Were they spoken in frustration, recognizing that Peter, the rock, the future pope, had so badly misunderstood his message? Or were they spoken in that sad tone a mother uses when she tells her children to stop fighting even as the resignation in her voice betrays the fact that she knows they never will? Whatever the tone, the message is clear that his followers didn’t understand one of the central things about their master: Jesus had spent his entire ministry healing people, including healing diseased ears so that people might hear again. And, on his last night on earth the leader of his apostles cuts off the ear of someone in an attempt to protect him.
 

Everything about Jesus speaks of vulnerability rather than self-protection. He was born in a manger, a feeding trough, a place where animals come to eat, and he ends up on a table, ‘flesh for the life of the world,’ to be eaten up by the world (JN 6:51). The first words out of his mouth call for metanoia, the opposite of paranoia. In the end, he gives himself over to crucifixion rather than to self-protection. That was Jesus’ response to a world that grossly misunderstood him and violently mistreated him. He opened his arms in vulnerability rather than closed his fists in self-defense. 

Ideally, that’s how we should respond when the world is unfair to us. Unlike Peter, who failed to remember Jesus’ message and instinctively struck with his sword, don’t let threats erase what was central to Jesus’ teaching by responding in a manner antithetical to the gospel, hostility for hostility, immaturity for immaturity” (14-15).


“Praying”

Lenten thoughts from Saints  

“You don’t know how to pray? Put yourself in the presence of God, and as soon as you have said, ‘Lord, I don’t know how to pray!’ you can be sure you’ve already begun.”

St. Josemaria Escriva de Balaguer

“40 Ways To Be During Lent”
Ashes to Easter

– Be Outside –

Take Up Our Cross

A Lenten Prayer



“Take Up Our Cross”

Daybreaks: Daily Reflections for Lent & Easter
by Ron Rolheiser, OMI

 

“Today you have accepted the Lord’s agreement: he will be your God, and you will walk in his ways, observe his statutes, commandments, and ordinances, and obey his voice”.

(DEUTERONOMY 26:17)

“Among Jesus’ many teachings we find this rather harsh-sounding invitation: ‘Whoever wishes to come after me must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me’ (Matthew 16:24).

Part of that means accepting that suffering is a part of our lives. Accepting our cross and giving up our lives means that, at some point, we have to make peace with the unalterable fact that frustration, disappointment, pain, misfortune, illness, unfairness, sadness, and death are part of our lives and must ultimately be accepted without bitterness. As long as we nurse the notion that pain in our lives is something we need not accept, we will habitually find ourselves bitter because we did not accept the cross.

Taking up your cross and being willing to give up your life means living in a faith that believes nothing is impossible for God. Indeed, whenever we succumb to the notion that God cannot offer us a way out of our pain into some kind of newness, it’s precisely because we have reduced God down to the size of our own limited imagination. It’s only possible to accept our cross, to live in trust, and to not grow bitter inside pain if we believe in possibilities beyond what we can imagine, namely if we believe in the resurrection.

We can take up our cross when we begin to believe in the resurrection” (13).


“Fasting”
Lenten thoughts from Saints  

“Fasting cleanses the soul, raises the mind, subjects one’s flesh to the spirit, renders the heart contrite and humble, scatters the clouds of concupiscence, quenches the fire of lust, kindles the true light of chastity.”

St Thomas Aquinas

“40 Ways To Be During Lent”
Ashes to Easter

– Be Introspective –

The Universal Church

A Lenten Prayer



“The Universal Church”

Daybreaks: Daily Reflections for Lent & Easter
by Ron Rolheiser, OMI

 

“For with the Lord is mercy
with him is plenteous redemption”.

(PSALM 130:7)

“When we look at church life today, especially within parishes, it is obvious that it is made up of much more than only the core, committed congregation, namely those who participate regularly in church life and accept (at least for the main part) the dogmatic and moral teachings of their churches.

The church also contains a wide variety of the less-engaged: people who practice occasionally, people who accept some of its teachings, guests who visit our churches, people who don’t explicitly commit but are sympathetic to the Church and offer it various kinds of support, and; not least, people who link themselves to God in more private ways, those who are spiritual but not religious.

This does not mean that there are tiers within discipleship, where some are called to a higher holiness and other to a lower one. The Church may never be divided into the perfect and less perfect, the better and the half-baked, full participation and partial participation. Each individual chooses how deep he or she will go. Some go deeper than others, though everyone is meant to go its full depth.

We are all around Jesus in our different ways, and we must be careful not to judge each other” (9).


“A Thirst for Lent is a Thirst of Love”
Lenten thoughts from Saints  

“As Lent is the time for greater love, listen to Jesus’ thirst…He knows your weakness. He wants only your love, wants only the chance to love you”.

St Teresa of Calcutta

“40 Ways To Be During Lent”
Ashes to Easter

– Be Prepared –

Church of the Presentation

Online Mass /
Mass Schedule

Sunday Mass

Saturday 5pm (also live-streamed)
Sunday 7:30am, 8:30am, 10:00am, 11:30am & 6:30pm

Daily Mass (click here to view)

Mon. – Sat. 9:00am (also live-streamed

Parish News & Events

Please read about all of our upcoming events in the weekly bulletin.

Weekly Bulletin

Subscribe to Fr. Bob’s email, “Peek at Sunday”

Archdiocese of Newark Website

Word

We hear and share God’s Word

Learn More

Worship

We praise God together

Learn More

Community

We build up the Body of Christ

Learn More

Service

We offer loving service to others

Learn More